A thoughtful and practical guide to support your loved ones when they need it most.

Grief is one of life’s most difficult experiences, and when someone dies, the emotional weight is often made heavier by the need to make urgent decisions, complete paperwork, and try to guess what their loved one might have wanted. I created this workbook after hearing from so many families who found themselves overwhelmed in the days following a loss - unsure of where to begin, and burdened by the unknown.

This workbook is designed to be a gift to those you leave behind. It’s a gentle, practical way of helping your loved ones through a hard time by giving them the clarity, reassurance and direction they’ll need when you’re no longer there to guide them. Whether you fill it out in private or share the process with those closest to you, it offers peace of mind - knowing that your wishes will be respected, and that you’ve done what you can to ease the way for those you care about.

Inside, you’ll find space to record your wishes for a funeral or memorial, share meaningful reflections on your life and legacy, and note down the details that are often hard to find - from bank account information to passwords, contacts, and the other important pieces of ‘life admin’ that need to be sorted after someone passes. It’s not only about practicalities, though. This is also a space to express your values, your story, and the way you want to be remembered.

This is available as a digital download or as a printed version which can be completed with your information, save it, share it with your loved ones, and return to update it whenever life evolves.

This is your voice, and your love - thoughtfully put into action. It’s a simple but powerful way to look after the people who matter most to you, long after you’re gone.